The tip of the clitoris is at the top of the vagina. Looking at it from the outside it is about the size of a pea although size is individual to each woman. The clitoris lies under a hood of skin and becoming erect protruding from the hood during sexual stimulation. The clitoris is an extremely large organ connecting nerves extending throughout the vulva and although only a tiny part is visible the stimulation of the clitoris is vitally important for a woman’s total sexual satisfaction when achieving orgasm.
Stroking, licking and circling all work well on the clitoris also rhythmic rubbing on the lips and clitoris is highly arousing. During the plateau phase (It’s not happening phase) the clitoris slips back under the hood of skin which is a natural part of female arousal, if it’s exposed and rubbed it can cause pain and discomfort.